I'm so angry

[xmasstress]

So my husband does the odd painting and decorating job now and again but also has his main job in which he works full time. Last week he did some for this woman who he's done loads for before. He said it's a small landing area and it up a shelf and it would get done that same day because he went at around 12 dinner time and spent the full after noon up until around 8 at night. He came back and said he didn't finish and hen scheduled to go back today to finish. He said he wild be two hours max. He got there at 14:40 and he's still not back and switched his phone off just because I rang him asking how long he would be. I'm so angry and upset because he only got paid £80 for this job and he's just ignored me and turned his phone off and I don't. Know what time he will be back. He promised to be straight with me about These jobs and he hasn't been I'm so stressed out

Is there something else going on? Because I don't understand why you are angry.

Absolutely clueless about your point & what you’re angry about??

DH always calls me when I'm out, drives me crackers.

Do you always have to ring? Crack on with your day and he can sort himself out when he gets home

Do you think he's got an ow he sees, when he's supposed to be working..?

He told me he would only be two hours today and that he would update me the time he would be Home. He's been 4 hours and turned his phone off. This job should hAve been finished the other day. He's not been honest about the amount of work he is doing because it wouldn't take all this time to paint a small landing. He was supposed to take the kids to an activity at 18:30 and he didn't let me know whether they are still going so left me like this wondering whether to send them to bed at bedtime or not.

I wouldn't be angry about the time keeping. I'd let the switched off phone slide.
But I would Be annoyed that he'd committed to taking the kids somewhere and let them down.

There must be more to this because you are so angry over something so small.

Either you are really controlling or he is lying and disrespectful generally and this is the last straw...