And that was that, he is gone

[Iamok0303]

At the back of my other thread. I don’t know how to link it. I ended
relationship. But he made it clear I am the one to blame. I was fine up until yesterday when he came to pick up the rest of his stuff but left behind stuff I had given him saying they brought to many memories. He sat down to tell me how I had ruined a fantastic relationship. I am in tatters. I know I will live but it’s knocked me down. I am now going to have to peace myself together knowing he will just move on so easily to the next one, just like he did with his ex. How do I go on.

Sorry for some reason not all the text came in my post. I had a thread on here but don’t know how to link it

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What was the title of your other thread - what we're your reasons for ending the relationship Lamok0303.

The title was “am I wrong about my relationship”

It wasn't a fantastic relationship. From your other post he was rude, he swore at you and threw things at you, refused to pay towards his own upkeep in your flat and wouldn't 'let you' have any opinions.

It was a horrible and abusive relationship.

Probably "fantastic" for him as he got to have another victim to intimidate and got to live rent free for a while.

You're much better off without this loser, and yes he probably will move on to someone else quickly because he's a parasite. You can relax in the knowledge that you kicked him out and will be much better off never communicating with him again.

I know I am right unending it. I am miss forties and I am devastated. I have been so low over this. When he came yesterday to pick up his stuff he said that what happens to me in my previous relationship, (was raped by my ex partner), was my fault and he was not able to live with someone who had mild ptsd. When I told him to look up ptsd he said he was wasting his time as we were finished. Then contradicted himself by asking why I would throw away a fantastic relationship. I feel like my chest will explode.