He turned all of his notifications off on his phone, I didn't realise until yesterday evening as I text him whilst we were sitting next to each other and it made the noise but nothing flashed up on the screen.
Nearly 2 years ago I found out that he had cheated 9 months before (does that make sense). I left with DS1 and then two days later found out I was pregnant again, over time we worked on things etc. I do believe I recovered from it, but was a little wary of noticing changes in behaviour.
He is being treated for depression ATM also, and hasn't been doing to well.
I managed to get on his phone earlier and when he went out a few Friday's ago he's messaged a girl he works with at 3.30am saying 'where are you?' But there was either no reply or he's deleted it, because he's then said 'Alright'
I don't know when he came in that night because I was fast asleep, but he was back by 6.30 when I got up with the children.
I just confronted him, he's giving me silent treatment and 'doesn't know what I'm talking about' and even if he did wouldn't tell me because 'I shouldn't of been snooping' I've left with a few things in my bag and I'm standing at a bus stop. Not sure if I should go home and have the inevitable screaming match or camp out on a friends sofa :(
Sorry if none of this makes sense