So my ex was emotionally/mentally/financially abusive to me. I was in a refuge for 5 months last year from December to April. They didn't really give me much help as they said j was independent and my case wasn't as serious as all the other women in there. I talked myself around I think to believe it wasn't as bad but then I had PND but not sure if it was down to him or me.
Anyway today I went to the health clinic to get a coil fitted. The doctor asked me alot of questions. One being have you ever been scared of an ex. Thought it was an odd question so I said yes and she said was this your D'S dad so I said yes. Then she asked if my DS was at risk of being emotionally abused. I said no he loves him and wouldn't to him. She said well it can happen to the children too. And then she said she thinks she that someone should know. I told her my old GP knew and my old HV.
Now she has me questioning weather he would emotionally or mentally abuse him. He has always adored him, wants to have him and couldn't show love to me or his family but could towards our D'S. He would do anything for him I think. Or am I being naive??