Just looking for a bit of advice as to the rules of dating. I am divorced (very amicably). Had a brief fling about 8 months ago. Met someone early last month and we have been on a lot of dates. Lovely dates, lunches, dinners, drinks. Plus a few overnights. Early days. Having fun. Getting to know each other. Seems to be a nice guy. Both in our 40's so not kids. He has returned to Australia for Christmas to see family and to sort out things such as sell his car/bike. He will be back early Jan. Since he has been away we have been in regular contact. We are planning to do various things when he comes back. So my question is when do you have a chat about if you are dating other people. I am not looking to go on any other dates over the next few weeks which is just my preference and not because I feel I have met the one - I just have very busy life, Christmas madness has commenced and I prefer to get to know one person. Any advice on modern dating protocol? My instinct is to enjoy Christmas and then see how we get on when he gets back from Oz and then perhaps raise the question.