I'm 6 weeks down the line of moving out and I'm struggling. I'm worried about money, I have the first court date in January, my DD is depressed and my DS spends all his time round there playing on the xbox til stupid o'clock. Twatface just lets him. I want him back with me but I fear he is getting into the groove and will absolutely use it to his advantage as some kids will.
So I can see now that TF (twatface) really is nasty. He is using my son to avoid paying for CM as he's around there all the time. I know this as my DD asked for some money for school from him the other day only for him to tell her he's paying CM so I should pay. well he's paying the min amount because he has his own business and has put himself on min wage. I've been paying for clothes, shoes, doing all the washing, making sure they go to their clubs etc. He sits on his fucking arse and just lets DS play on the xbox. The kids won't ask him for anything because he says no to everything. And aggressively so.
I have been so stupid and soft and reasonable in the hope that he will step up. But I know he won't because he is just not right in the head. I fucking hate him. I'm fed up of walking through treacle. Everythings so hard.
I've had to furnish this new rental on a shoe string. Half my savings are gone and by spring time they'll all be gone.. Meanwhile, he's sitting in a big fucking house being obnoxious and calling me evil.