You've been with someone for 10 years then fall out of love with that person?
I've known I don't want to spend my life with him for a year or so but I'm not doing much about it. We have DC together but not married and I just feel awful. He thinks we could 'work it out' if I just cheer up a bit and try and be happy. How can I be happy when I'm so miserable? Our relationship is sucking the life out of me. We have nothing in common anymore and have the same old disagreements time and time again.
The guilt I carry over feeling like this is wearing me down. I feel like a terrible person. If I end it our family will be torn apart but equally I can't stand to think that for me 'this is it'. I feel guilty, selfish and I'm being unfair to him the longer I carry on feeling this way. Everything he does annoys me and when he tries to cuddle me or touch me I freeze. It just doesn't feel right anymore. I really have tried but this past year my feelings haven't changed that much.
Advice needed please