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Is it my fault

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Amaz24 · 10/12/2017 08:51

I've found out my husband has been having an affair. He tells me it was just sex and meant nothing else. Our sex life was non existent tbh but that didn't mean o didn't love him or didn't want to be with him. I was busy being Mum, working and he worked also, home late etc.
2am I am not interested I'm tired and always tired as felt like I'm the one who does everything for our little one. He never got up etc. He never like anyone looking after little one so it's like we became mum and Dad and forgot about us as a couple.
I'm devastated he's left and I don't want it but can't be treated like it.
My worlds falling apart, I'm struggling to hold it together, not eating , not sleeping, feeling sick all the time and getting shakes.
HELP xxx

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Keepithidden · 10/12/2017 08:55

No not your fault, he had a choice, or multiple choices. I'm the same situation as him and will not cheat. I'm sorry you're going through this.

Amaz24 · 10/12/2017 09:03

Thank you, I don't know what to do!
I just hope he knows I never wanted this and I do love him

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