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To ask or not to ask?

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HettySunshine · 10/12/2017 08:22

I think the thing to do is nothing but I just want to double check. It was my work do on Friday and a number of us stayed over in the hotel afterwards. I was in the room next to my good friend at work. She's just the nicest person ever and a delight to work with. She's happily married and has a dss.

I had a relatively early night and didn't drink much so was feeling fine yesterday morning. I went to have a cuppa in my room but my kettle wasn't working so called reception and they said they'd send one up.

My room, my colleague's and one other were in a little corridor and there was a door into our little bit. I heard a door open so glanced through the peep hole to see if it was the hotel person and saw a man leaving my friend's room, I think I know who it was but I'm not 100% certain.

When I saw my friend later on she looked pretty rough, her hair was all roughed up at the back and she said she'd been drinking jagarbombs into the early hours.

Should I see if she wants to talk about what happened or not? She might be desperate to get it off her chest but equally she could be mortified that I saw the chap go. Any advice appreciated.

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OliviaStabler · 10/12/2017 08:24

Don't say a thing is my advice. Am sure if she wants to talk, she will find someone to chat to.

Tictactic · 10/12/2017 08:25

She'll tell you if she wants to...

Animation86 · 10/12/2017 08:25

I would totally stay well out of this. Don’t make it your business

HettySunshine · 10/12/2017 09:15

I thought so. Thank you ladies. I'll keep shtum.

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