So I was using DH computer to do some work and went on the google taskbar to search for something. When I put in something that started with "m", it put in match.com as a suggestion. I thought maybe this was just being suggested as it is a popular sight so I took a look in the history. Yes looking in his history counts as snooping and I would not normally do this at all but sure enough, a few days back he has looked at match.com, plenty of fish, tinder and something called widow dating. I have literally been having palpitations and am in complete shock. On the one hand, he may have idly looked at these sights out of interest (yes I am probably grasping at straws) but I want to know what I am dealing with. When I went into the match.com website I couldn't find evidence of an account/ saved login details. I haven't been able to look on his computer anymore as he is around. He is very tech-savvy and works in IT so I don't think he would leave anything obvious around and I am not tech-savvy at all.
For background, we have probably never been as happy in our relationship as we are at the moment (I thought?!) and he has never given me reason to suspect him. He is also very busy so I don't know where he would even find the time to meet someone.
Does anyone have any suggestions of how I could look further into whether he has done anything on these sites? I don't want to confront him now in case he then hides something as I want to find out the truth, whatever that is. Should I go on there and make up a fake profile of my own to then try to find his? I am not on them myself obviously and I guess you can't look unless you join.
Can anybody give me any advice? Many thanks in advance.