Argh did something really stupid

[Secretlifeofme]

So I'm bi, in an open relationship with my husband. Never yet done anything with a woman but husband is happy for me to do so and indeed I am actively looking for a woman now. Husband hae slept with 3 other women with my consent and enjoyment.

Tonight (I'm in different time zone) went to a Christmas party hosted by a colleague. Arranged in advance to sleep over.

Different colleague is bi but married. I knew this. Her husband is my head of dept. Tonight we (me and female colleague) ended up kissing passionately in 'my' bedroom at her suggestion. It was amazing and now I want more :( please talk me down!!

Gender and sexuality is irrelevant here, you don’t get involved with a married person, never mind your bosses spouse.

Stop being a twat. You come across like some sort of immature teenager.

I'm sure finding a single lesbian or bisexual one ...or either in an open relationship won't be too difficult if you look in the right places.

I think the replies would have been pretty damn snippy no matter what gender of married colleague the OP had kissed.

What a thrilling life you lead, op

By the way...are you "actively looking" for women who have sex with women on Mumsnet ?

I always like a bit of woman on woman action. But that was not a wise move. And if the husband/your boss finds out, shit happens...

Thanks all. As I've said, it was a drunken mistake. Obviously I'm not going to continue anything. And AnyFucker, no of course not. I've been on mumsnet for maybe 7 or 8 years and use it for advice, as many do.

Don't blame me if you sound like a someone looking for kicks on MN

Your op had the whiff of eau de pervy troll

If you have been around here long enough, you would know that

Yes I suppose it did a bit, as I was drunk at the time and not quite myself! Believe me, I have never posted on mumsnet about doing anything similar as it has never happened before! (And won't be happening again)

"Not quite myself"

Fair enough