Just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has advised me with my emotionally abusive stbxh. Unfortunately, he got worse and I had to report him to the police. He was released with a warning but it was enough to get him out the house.
We're now starting the journey to get my children on track, start contact etc. He is, of course, saying that it's all my fault, I'm abusive but I'll get through!
Thank you again everyone!