In April of 2015 my husband of 17 year told me he had be seeing someone else (at the time he was 45 she was 23years old). After 6 months apart from each other we started to make up and get back together. We bought a new house in December of 2015 and I thought this would be a new start. In February 2016 he left me and our two kids ( aged 15 and 11) again. Approximately 6 months later he tells me he is seeing that girl again, move forward a year and a bit and he now tells me he is taking our kids away on holiday with his girlfriend. I am absolutely distraught that our kids will be in holiday with this girl. Over the last few years I have had counselling, life coaching been hypnotised and been on anti depressants but nothing seems to help. I really need somebody to talk to who has been in this situation and how did you cope with your kids being with your husbands girlfriend? We are obviously seperated but we are still married. I’m desperate, please help me