Need some practical advice... going through another issue where dh has shown respect towards me... I lashed out.. I apologised ( as I have been doing numerous times) he is acting like it’s all my fault (as usual)... nothing new same thing over scd over again for over 12 years... I need to break this pattern and gain some self respect avd self love... can any of you suggest practical ways I can respect myself and live myself... in theory I think I do... but obviously I’m not... I’m so fed up of this circle... I am beginning to hate myself instead of love... thank you...