I need advice or maybe just some perspective
DH is a really lovely guy good father to our dc does his share of housework etc we both work FT in demanding corporate roles
Recently we felt that we were drifting apart a bit- normal I expect when you have ft jobs hobbies and dc- so we had a few nights away on our own in away other city and really brought us closer but dh said that- although we have a rather "healthy" sex life that I should initiate it more
I agree I usually wait for him to initiate it and that's agree confidence thing however since this point (were talking less than 6 weeks) the following has happened
I tried to initiate sex and he seemed up for it then confessed he had literally just had a wank in the shower and so it was a no go. I felt rejected and hurt (was this and overreaction ) the children were at my dp house and we never have opportunity like that so I was a bit shocked...
Secondly this week again no chance of dc 'interrupting' so I put on a sexy outfit came downstairs and he was really pleasantly surprised but then said he was awaiting an arranged phone call 'in the next ten mins'
Again I was hurt and rejected so put my comfies on and that was that. The call was personal not work related and could have been ignored for context. Also he had expected me to sit around for however long he took on the call and then still be up for it
Context both mid 30s fit and healthy been together and married 10years
Am I overreacting by feeling put out hurt rejected and like I shouldn't bother