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New bf said ex's name during sex

30 replies

dribble90 · 29/11/2017 18:57

Hello, I'm seeking so much needed advice as I feel too embarrassed to talk to friends about it.
I have been seeing my bf for three months. We both came out of long-term relationships back in June. We are very happy and are taking it slow.
One thing which has been playing on my mind is last week during sex by bf mumbled his ex's name before he climaxed. Either he didn't realise he said it or because he mumbled it thought I didn't hear so nothing was said about it.
Now i thinking did he say it? Should it matter? Should I say something to him?
Anyone got any advice?
Thanks

OP posts:
LesisMiserable · 03/12/2017 22:54

The ex's name wouldn't bother me. If it was a woman's name I hadn't heard of before it might though....

WhatALoadOfOldBollocks · 03/12/2017 22:58

I'd ignore a one off but if he did it again I'd mention it to him.

99yellowballoons · 03/12/2017 23:05

I've done this once during sex and also had it done to me too. I wasn't thinking of the person, just so used to saying ex's name in the throes as it was a fairly new relationship.

I personally would mention it to him. These things happen sometimes and it wouldn't bother me.

passemoilevin · 03/12/2017 23:18

DM did it to DF on their honeymoon. I think he was a bit peeved but they've been married nearly 50 years so i think he got over it.

Shock Your mum told you that?

ReasonableLlama · 03/12/2017 23:47

This is why I don't use names during sex. Just stick to "oh god" or "oh baby" Grin

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