I really fancy this man! He's said the same! Do his 'sexting' attempts indicate he just wants a shag?

[spaghettijunctionrocks]

Hi all
I've Namechanged for this
I'm in my early 40s & happily single with a very busy life.
Met a guy randomly who was doing some work for me.
Gorgeous. Connection. Texts started to not be anything about the work....
V complimentary & quite lovely to receive. He's asked me out but since I said yes his texts are basically along the lines of my arse/feeling horny/etx
I don't know how to answer!!!!Obviously not planning on marrying him but quite soon for sexting (only met him 3 times) or is it too early?
I've been out of 'the game' for a while and now wondering if he's just after a shag!?! Any advice welcome !!!

He sounds like a disrespectful sleaze bag. I wouldn't want to start seeing a man who couldn't start things off like a Gent. I mean, talk about wading in and just assuming he can talk to you like that. Uugh.

Depends if they both want to talk about sex and have fun

The sexting was too much & I cancelled the date!
Never in my life (or my friends lives) has sexting been a thing before the first date! Too weird.
Won't be in touch with him again
Too much self respect

Was it that bad

Good for you. It’s very sleazy and disrespectful to sext before a first date.

Are you SURE he's single? He doesn't seem out to impress.

Has any one else had any bad experiences with this

Insomnibrat I think not single or total player. Or both
Bloody gorgeous though & did have a few moments of lust but ultimately do I want to end up feeling like crap? Nooooooooo!
Dodged a bullet there and getting quite smug

If someone goes to sexts before you even meet up then what you are meeting up for is never going to be a “date” or a relationship.

Honestly I kinda feel relieved for you @spaghetti