Dating - when to have 'the talk'

[weekendninja]

I've been dating a guy for eight weeks or so. Both of us have been single for a long time and he's in the middle of divorce proceedings. We see each other about 2/3 times a week, mainly eating out/cinema, that kind of stuff.

At the beginning we never really established what either of us were looking for and it didn't really cross my mind because I've not dated for years and I just thought it best that I go with the flow.

It's at the point now where I'm really keen on him. Is it the done thing to ask him where he sees this going? I'm not even asking for exclusivity or for us to take it to the next stage...I just don't want to appear too clingy or overbearing.

Any thoughts?

Op I'm a couple of months into a new relationship and had the chat after a few dates. We had already had sex and I do not want to be one of many women so I asked him directly if he was dating anybody else. He said no, I said cool me neither and that was that. I am not prepared to be one of many women, my choice. I had a feeling he wasn't dating anybody else though. It's going well at the minute, we aren't rushing it and I love seeing him when we meet. Good luck to you 👍🏻