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Is my STBXH a narc?

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GeriT · 28/11/2017 16:01

  • He fell for me quite quickly
  • My family loved him
  • Told me I was the greatest thing on the earth/would be angry if I didn't spend time with him
  • Promised me the perfect future and he'd never leave
  • Had a kid and got married
  • Now he has OW
  • He is bored of me and blames me
  • Has no interest in my life despite knowing what I tough time I am going through independent of us?
  • He has already moved on but led me on for months pretending he hadn't
  • He's forgotten all of the good times
  • He prefers if his life is controlled (what ex partners did to him).

I was so easy going. Yeah I wasn't perfect and made my mistakes but I have tried so hard to fix them. He has done nothing.

He isn't even remorseful...why do I want an apology?

Or was I just stupid? I thought I could fix him - you can't fix anyone.

OP posts:
GeriT · 28/11/2017 16:02

Oh and everything is my fault despite his affair and I couldn't ever be the victim.

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