I have been with my partner 2 years. A bit rocky at times but ok. We got engaged recently. He was on his way home from work and called to say he would be late because he wanted to go to his parents first, he had received a call to say his bank card had been cloned and he needed to go home for some paperwork. He has form from in the past at being late back because he's decided to go home instead - always a reason but always a last minute text or call. I was angry and upset on the phone to him and was still when he got back.
The next morning we kissed goodbye and said see you later. He didn't come home that night so I called his home and he refused to talk to me. He refused to communicate (I tried text, calling, whatsapp and email). We were meant to be going away for the weekend but he cancelled the hotel - he didn't tell me he'd cancelled, just did so.
I finally got through on Sunday late afternoon. He said he was upset that I hadn't believed him about the card and he was upset and hurt. He apologised for his behaviour but excused it by focusing on the incident that triggered it.
We are meant to be meeting up tomorrow evening to discuss this and where we go from here. I don't know what to do. I hate the way he just opted out and went non-contact, and part of me wants to just take things back a step almost to dating instead of getting married. But then, I recognise that I was in the wrong and that I reacted badly to him detouring because of his card. What are your thoughts?