Feel so hurt

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We've only been separated 2 months, he signed the divorce papers 3 weeks ago and he's already seeing someone else.

I thought he was because he is on whatsapp every night when he goes to bed.

It hurts so much and I am stalking his whatsapp every night, I watch him come on line until he finishes which is usually around 11.30pm.

He told me he is going to speak to his solicitor because I am stalking him on there. But it hurts so much that he seems to have no respect for me, the dc and the 17yrs we have been together.

He says he is just moving on, it's only been 2 months ffs.

We still live together until god knows how long. But right now I hate him for how easily he has moved on and the little respect he is showing for me by doing this.

It happens.
If he doesn't like it then he can turn off the notifications and block you.
Why doesn't he just do that?
I know the feeling. I did the same and it's heart wrenching.
But you do it less and less and then you care less and less.
But it takes time.
He probably already had his head turned by her before you separated.
It's hard but it's something you have to deal with.
He could easily stop torturing you but he's choosing not to.
Could you block him so you aren't tempted?

He has his timings switched off but I know he goes on line as soon as he goes to bed so that's when I check. I just lie in bed with my whatsapp open and he's on it constantly.

Don't really want to block him because we use it to send pics or videos of our DC to each other.

There are other ways to communicate with him op so block him from whatsapp.