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How to deal with seeing pics of his ex all the time.

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Mumtobeluc · 28/11/2017 11:37

I need to get over this. I'm engaged and now pregnant.
I got over seeing them online and under his bed. The problem is I live with my partners family on the other side of the house.
My partner removed stuff so I wouldn't see it when I moved in but his mum is constantly got albums put on her computer of her , on her screen saver and looking through her social medias which I saw yesterday when we were in the kitchen.
I have body Dsymorphia and have come a long way but me and my partner only have a few pictures together and when I see pictures of his beautiful ex it makes it harder for me and effects our sex life sometimes. How can I get over this fully? Anyone been in same situation?

OP posts:
Thurlow · 28/11/2017 11:39

What do you mean, under his bed?

TheNaze73 · 28/11/2017 11:42

You need to compartmentalise. He had a life before you, he’s now with you & sounds committed. When you get your own place, all will be good

Mumtobeluc · 28/11/2017 11:48

You are right. In my rational mind I'm like get a grip I'm with him now I'm being ridiculous.
The picture was a blown up canvas with her draped over one of his old cars in a bra

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Guiltybystander · 28/11/2017 11:50

Do you really need to start two threads about this?

Mumtobeluc · 28/11/2017 11:57

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