I was in a relationship this year with someone who can only be described as a narcissist - very charming, attractive, compulsive liar, mocked people for kindness, told me frequently i was not his priority, had the shortest temper where he smash up the flat if i did something "annoying".
After the breakup I was kinda pathetic, agreed to be his friend as he was "going through a hard time".
He actually finished with me days before my birthday, a week before i was meant to move into his, and when i was suffering a very poor spell of mental health. Ultimately he left me homeless, alone and ultimately I dropped out of my PhD because of the poor mental health.
Anyway, i was stupid and continued seeing him. This gave him opportunity to constantly tell me how much he missed me, loved me, etc. I was sad so it kind of helped. We split a month or so ago, seen each other over ten times. I've slept at his house 4 time - most recently for sex this weekend (but not the other three times were we just cuddled).
I feel yesterday i saw him finally for what he was - a horrible person. He's basically getting all the perks of a relationship - someone to lean on emotionally and sex on tap, without having to commit - in his words at the start of the relationship "a part time boyfriend".
I sent him a text telling him I wanted no more contact with him, and basically for him to leave me alone.
He's waited a day to text me back this
"Okay babe. Just had the worst day from work! I am knackered, looked like a madman running around the office looking for something to do"
He's basically ignored me. I'm fuming! Obviously I need to ignore him, but I want to say FUCK OFF YOU WANKER I TOLD YOU. It's like he's just like yeah whatever you can't do that He's also just sent me a picture of us two on holiday this year ...
Anyone had experiences of this and any advice????