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He doesn't love me anymore

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ArtistMummy · 27/11/2017 10:55

This isn't a new topic here, but it is new to me.
I've been married to lovely guy for 23 years but I just don't think he loves me anymore. It's no ones fault, he just doesn't. He isn't mean or anything but I can't remember when he last demonstrated he cared or was supportive without prompting. We are more like good friends. He hasn't wanted to have sex for a very, very long time.
He is gentle and kind but I just don't think I make him happy.
I feel the best thing to do would be to leave - then we could get on with our lives and have chance to be happy. But it would be awful for him, and my daughter would be utterly heartbroken.
I'm really not sure what to do anymore. Thanks for reading

OP posts:
CremeFresh · 27/11/2017 10:59

You say it would be awful for him , but what about you ? You deserve to be loved . Have you sat down and discussed this ?

CheapSausagesAndSpam · 27/11/2017 10:59

Have you spoken to him about the way this is making you feel? About the lack of sex and affection?

WindowWiper · 27/11/2017 11:04

Living in a sterile marriage takes a terrible silent toll on your health, OP
You don’t have to live like this. Flowers

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