My boyfriend cheated on me - that's all fine now we sorted it, drunk mistake done with. Anyway when that was all going on, and he sent me the drunk message apologising and explaining, I woke up to that with his phone not being one or in contact - so instantly I panicked not cos of the incident but he was drunk, upset, probably not thinking straight. I assumed he went out with his best mate, so asked, turns out he wasn't but I had to explain what happened then and just said if he talks to you basically say it's okay. He didn't go back to his flat (he went to his Mams didn't sleep with the gal) but again same happened with his flat mate to the best friend. He's now found out and basically saying I was manipulating him by doing this and that he didn't want me just stayed to shut me up ect... And I Know its anger but I didn't mean it to hurt him, I was just worried!