Mega-confused, impatient, frustrated here and don't know how to fix it. if I give you some background, can you tell me what you think?
Sorry this is vague by the way.
I have the sexiest trainer ever for a sport I do as a hobby (but to a fairly high level). He is almost the same age as me, also separated with a son a similar age to mine.
Around 7 months ago, it was 1-1 between us in a sporting sense. We spent a lot of time talking fairly deeply about our failed relationships, kids, futures etc. Then a load of others joined suddenly and obviously it was different.
Since then, we have spent quite a lot of time on WhatsApp/FB Messenger chatting about all-sorts - from our separations to our sport to our kids to our holidays.
Sometimes, i get an inkling that he would like it to develop further but I am not sure. I can't ask him as if he says no I think I'll have to give up the training and this hobby is a huge part of my life.
I feel like I have to go one way or another soon. What can I do to be certain?
It's like I'm 16 again. We are both socially awkward, we do not share a mother tongue and our cultures are very different.