It’s late but there might be a few still up. DH & I were talking generally about Christmas. I have recently started a new job, which is great, but I said to DH that I was missing some Christmas things because they tend to be on a Saturday ( I work every weekend). He replied that in his opinion, I go to too many organised events! It just seemed odd & isn’t really accurate, as normally it’s just craft fairs or the lights being switched on etc. I defended myself & he apologised, saying he just blurted it out. I wondered if it was a round about way of saying he wanted us to spend a bit more time together ( we haven’t had a night out for ages). I also always fret about the old controlling stuff but maybe I’m overthinking it?