Basically just a huge sigh of relief.
I have posted here under various different names and always had a resounding response telling me to break up with my controlling and abusive husband. It has been 10 years of my confidence being whittled away by a narcissistic bully. We have 3 children, 5,4 and 1.
My youngest 2 are both autistic and very hard work, but he has never lifted a finger to help me or them so I feel as though we will be fine in that sense, he is just going to be a massive asshole with money.
He has a huge salary and drained our accounts when I told him I wanted to separate. He said he will find out a way to pay the bare minimum in child support too. We own 2 houses so at least my name is on them 50% and will get 50% of the profits of those. Im so over it I don't even care that much about the rest of the money. He said he would give me 50% of the stuff he took after he had sorted out mortgages and insurances etc so hopefully he does....
Anyway, thanks for reading!! :)