I've posted before about going back to my husband after I'd split up with him before because of his behaviour and abuse.
We've now decided to go our separate ways for good. The house is being sold. I've decided that I'll move into rented accommodation with our daughter once the house is sold, just to get out of this awful situation and speed things up. He is refusing to do the same (or even go and stay with his mum who has the space) and is saying he'll wait until he can find the right house to buy (which is going to add months to the sale process because he's taking ages about doing this).
One of his biggest bones of contention is that I'm a SAHM. Not as if he gives me any housekeeping money or money for our daughter and he refuses me access to HIS account. I've just robbed Peter to pay Paul for the past few years. Now, I've been offered an interview on Thursday for a well paid job (about £40k!). I was absolutely thrilled and asked him if he would take the morning off work to look after our daughter while I went (considering he pulls sickies for the slightest sniffle, its not an unreasonable request!). Just had a barrage of abuse about how unreasonable I am, how I want him to lose his job (?) and how I "don't have the brain" to organise interviews properly. I'm absolutely shaken and seething. He just seems to be blocking things left right and centre and making sure everything grinds to a miserable halt. Will I ever get rid of this cretin?