Feel totally and trapped and don't know what to do.
My DP is overly nice to me tells me how much he loves me, how beautiful I am etc. Says if I ever left him he wouldn't ever meet anyone else and would throw himself of a bridge.
He proposed after only eight months and I accepted as we were going on holiday the next day and felt like it would completely ruin the holiday.
The house we live in is his, the mortgage is in his name and he bought it before we met.
His parents are massively involved, he consults them on every decision (getting a cat ffs he was scared to tell them??) his mum is his "accountant" for his bank accounts and will pull him up if she thinks we're "spending too much money" eg. She told him we eat out too much and now he won't go out for food
He interrupts me when I'm telling a story and speaks over me. Doesn't listen half the time. Not sure if this is my paranoia
My family are very different to his, mine are quite jokey and laid back and so when he's around them he will make crude innapripiate jokes. My mum once asked him if he spoke to his parents like that and he replied "no I couldn't with them"
I don't drive and have moved areas to live with him. He now works overtime every weekend and am sat in the house alone
I'm not happy but feel trapped. I have knowwheee to go if I leave him. I'm a student and it's a lot easier to get to my university and placement from his address. I have no money to get my own place. My family have moved away. I've no friends after cutting them off when I met him.
Should I stay until I finish my university course and have money or should I leave?
It sounds worse when wrote down, he's not a bad person I just found the relationship very suffocating.
Not sure what I'm looking for here just need to vent 😒