Just saw on Loose Women a discussion about whether it's common or not to have the same libido as your partners.
Janet Street Porter said if people in a relationship where their partner puts on weight and doesn't want any sex and is generally just miserable to be around then it should be ok to go off and have sex elsewhere behind their back.
Please tell me the majority of people don't follow this same train of thought?!
If my partner stopped having sex with me I'd try and get to the root cause of it and fix things. If it couldn't be fixed then I'd leave. I wouldn't just go out and shag someone behind his back