He has accused me of something I haven't done and walked away again

[Dontspeaktome]

Please tell me if you think he is making this up just because he changed his mind about having me in his life.

I love my ex. We haven't spoken for 4 months when we broke up and he cut me off. Our relationship got toxic.
He has accused me several times of different things including being a prostitute
He does suffer from paranoia.

I saw him and spoke to him on Sunday We went to a hotel and had sex. Everything was great and I miss4d him and was happy we were talking again.

Today he has called me to accuse me of writing his mother a letter. I don't know what this letter says but he told me his mother is kicking him out of his house and won't speak to him.

He told me it's my hand writing as it's the same as the writing I did on a birthday card.

I asked what it said and to let me see it and he said no he doesn't want to speak to me anymore and he is cutting everyone off
And apparently I'm the only one who knows his house like that.

To me this does not make sense for it to be me to a rational thinking person but he is saying it's me.

Do you think this is made up?

Neither of us have children I just come on this site because I like the fprum. We are both in our 20s.

Thank you

Whatever you do, don't have a bloody baby with him. My exP had well controlled bipolar, we got on great - no sign of paranoia or abusive behaviours - perfect relationship for a few years and had a baby. My DDs 2 now, I've had to get a restraining order (which is often breached), had SS involved, firemen round to fit extra smoke alarms due to the arson risk, the most disgusting lies told about me, sexual coercion - and worst of all, my precious DD has a drug addict criminal father who desperately needs sectioning for his and other people's safety - and will be dead or in prison within 2 years 100%. And I'm only 24. Run run run while you can.

Oh sorry, I forgot to say these were the sorts of the things he truly believed about me. That's how it begins. That's how they justify destroying your life.

He does sound psychotic , sounds like he needs professional help but don't feel you need to be the one to help him, I would ignore the messages from him, the more you reply the worse it will get ( in his messed up head).

Thank you everyone and you are correct. The whole thing is bizarre but it was obviously a mistake to speak to him on sunday. Literally been in his life for 48 hours and already some bullshit has happened.
I personally don't believe there was a letter either.

It makes people feel important if they can save damaged people.Dont fall into this trap -run for your life

This is what paranoia does to do. It’s bizarre and alarming and would definitely cut him loose. So sorry if you really like him. My ex was like this we had an on off relationship.He was always breaking up with me without explanation and then silent treatment then draw me in again with live bombing , it’s abusive.

Meant to say love bombing , being the sweetness man

I have a friend who was with a similar guy he accused her of all sorts, he turned up at her house (amongst a lot of other things) and cut her phone wires and broke in and stood looming over her bed, she had her kids in the house at the time, the police fitted panic alarms for her and everything. He went to prison because of a lot of things he'd done. The silly cow married him when he got out. Guess what, he didn't change it didn't last two minutes.
Run for the hills!

It's ok to love somebody but still be fully aware that they are not the right person to be in a relationship with

Stay away from this man. Don't look back. Seriously, he is bad news.