Argggggggghhhhhhhhh.
2 years ago she had an affair (she's in her 60s), my dad found out and wasn't happy about it at all. However mum said that she wanted them to have the freedom to see other people, but remain married for practical reasons. All love/romance was long gone.
So dad finds himself a girlfriend and mum at first is ok about this. Then she gets dumped by her bf and next thing she goes nuts at my dad about HIS adultery. She's now claiming that she never actually had sex with her bf so has not committed adultery. She attcks my dad physically and smashed the house up!!!! Dad leaves that night and never goes back.
He has his own flat, where he's been for 18 months, they are getting divorced (dragging on with solicitors now) and he is still seeing his girlfriend.
On Easter Sunday he came round to visit and his gf came too. She's been here before but I've never mentioned it my mum. DD let slip that the gf had been oevr though. My mum hit the roof. She doesn't think I should have "that woman" in my house until the divorce is final.
Personally I can't see what difference a bit of paper is going to make. Their relationship is over. Plus mum had a boyfriend first. She was hardly speaking to me when I rang earlier. I really don't feel I should (or can) tell my dad his gf can't come.