Just that really. Since he retired has lost all self esteem. He has always been emotionally manipulative but has become so much worse.
I used to be able stand up to him and get on with my own life but am ill, housebound, rarely see anyone and everything I say leads to shouting, accusations of trying to cause trouble or control him.
Obviously what he is saying is what he should have said to her but was unable to due to FOG.
There are very, very good reasons why I can’t leave but wonder if others have experienced anything like this.
Would be good to talk as I feel lonely and find life difficult.