I've been married for just over 18yrs and have a DD aged 13. The relationship with me and DH is at an all time low and I find myself feeling more and more lonely and sad everyday.
We seem to spend more time not talking than we do talking nowadays. We dont communicate at all. When he come's home from work he usually says hello DD and then goes up to change out of his work clothes, very rarely will he speak to me even if i am in the room. Hr does not eat dinner with us, DD and i eat dinner at 6.30pm and he will eat around 8pm. At night we can both be awake buy neither of us will talk to each other. Over the years our arguing has got worse, the arguments always end with him telling me what my problem is and that i cause them and its all my fault, he never takes any responsìbiliy for how we have became. I have threatened him with divorce but he tells me that i am leaving him in a financial mess that i agreed to help pay. Everyday i feel upset and hate my life my DD sees me upset and i hate that she hears the arguments and has to sit through the non talking weeks / months.
Any help or advice would be great.