This is a long story, sorry if I go on a bit . I've been married 25 years have 3 children 2 are in their 20's and youngest is 7. We've had alot of ups and downs over the years and I've wanted to leave my husband but never had the courage. Until last Christmas I was very unwell and got let down by h with no support what's so ever and that was it for me. I've totally fell out of love with him .
March this year I started a relationship with my first love from when I was 17, who I totally connect with and we are madly inlove . It's a love that I can't explain but I defiantly can say he's my soulmate . He is not a marriage reckor as I had already come to terms with my marriage being dead but alot of people are going to see that he is .
I'm giving my family one last Christmas then I'm going to live at my mums for a while . I told my husband earlier this year that I wasn't happy and he's been trying so hard since but it's not the real him, leapords can't change their spots , but he will still be devasted when I go .
Now this is what I need advice on , do I set up on my own for a bit to get my dd used to her new dad figure in her life or stay at mums for a month and then move in with him . I'm thinking time for them to get to know each other , but it be a total waste of money renting and setting up as he has his own lovely house xx