.. New guy after split from negative relationship.. It started off really well.. But now I'm just not sure any more.. I'm exhausted most of time from work and looking after my two boys. Plus we went away in summer with his son and my two and it was really bad.. He has apologized and says I shouldn't judge him on those two weeks... But I just haven't got the headspace any more. Writing this it seems obvious but maybe I'm not as sorted as I thought I was after break down of my relationship with ex. I've tried to step back from new guy but it just makes him more insistent. He says we should spend weekend together and talk things through. Part of me is like yes I feel good with him but other is like it will never work and too complicated with kids involved especially based on crap holiday. I'm thinking to just break it off today before the weekend rather than even going there again.