My husband left for another woman 6 weeks ago. We have a 9 year old son who has autism.
Husband is too busy enjoying his perfect new life with her, doing stuff with her and her grandchildren while my own boy goes without and has had his happy childhood ripped away from him. His dad is seven hours drive away from him now. He refused to find a job and a place to live here as he wanted to be there with her. Hes now being so evil saying he didn't love me me anymore and used the excuse that me having to sleep in my sons room (he was terrified to sleep alone and would check I was there. It's a common trait with autism and sleeping) had stopped him loving me. He could gave spoken to me about stuff so we could have tried to sort it out. He chose not to. He said he hated me in messages a few days ago and that hes glad he's not my personal chauffeur cook and cleaner anymore. Which isn't true at all. He said we didn't talk. I don't know where all these are coming from its like he's rewriting history and trying to deflect the blame. The woman is an old ex and he said they wrote only talking and it just happened. We were all meant to be moving as a family back to where he us now as his parents and some of his family are there. Just so happens she is too. He'd been lying to me just to get me to move so I was trapped there with my son. I keep blaming myself now thinking it really was my fault. I hurt so much yes for ne and What I thought was a happy family life as he never showed anything was wrong at all but mainly for my son who has had everything taken away from him and all the things he got to do