So from my own thread and finding Ds with weed at weekend - this now feels like it is escalating out of control and turning into another opportunity to undermine me.
I get the seriousness of drugs, I get the dangers involved but I also understand that my Ds is very very unhappy. Right now he is saying he will kill himself again.
Ds told me X took him to gp today to talk about drugs - x has sent me a long email about his discussion with Ds last night and what he is doing - he has spoken to some drug intervention support who suggested gp and school.
X told me he is seeing head next week. Ds is distraught about this - the x has involved the school before in his personal battle against me with the school fees. I also paid for Ds to remain as x claims he could no longer afford ( bullshit) them. This was a last minute decision and has eaten into my housing money.
X is saying it is Ds school friends - he has a good set of friends he is well liked - he is not a bad boy- this is the fallout from acrimonious parents. I have been told to speak to WA - I will be doing this tomorrow.
X is now restricting Ds access to money - he is refusing he attend any more festivals until he is 18 another 18 months. X has form for being over heavy handed he sent solicitors a 26 point checklist about house security when I first left kids alone at 15
This is another attempt to put me as a bad parent - no doubt using my MH in some form - which ironically was minimised when it came to whether I could return to work
I dont know how to deal with this - I was just thinking today I need to let all my anger go and move on with the kids and then this happens. I've just spoken to Dd - she thinks if the school react badly to this Ds could get expelled - that will Finnish him off