A week apart

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Married in August, older couple, had a few issues over the last year but feel we love each other.

I've just been away for a week with friends/family, H didn't want to come because mainly women going. His friends all think he is lucky to have me but I have been a little underwhelmed by his welcome home for me. In the pub last night, one of them asked why he was so moody when he should be happy I was home. It upset me as I noticed too and he was snappy with me.

I wonder what's wrong with him. I missed him terribly and couldn't wait to see him.

Was he resentful you went without him and is going to sulk for a while as your 'punishment'?

I don't see why he should be resentful. He could have come and chose not to. He's also been on a weekend away without me so we are not joined at the hip but who knows!

some men are like child. he must be resenting.

I don't see why he should be resentful.

Could have been resentful cos you went without him.

Did he not want you to come along to the pub with his friends?

He is punishing you because you went away without him.

He didn't want to go, you were expected to recognise that & YOU were not supposed to go either.

This is designed so that you'll think twice before you go next time - and say no.
Otherwise, you can look forward to a full scale sulk when you come home. Is that Ok with you?