I have name changed for this post but am a regular (and not someone from the Mail/Sun) I needed to find something on DHs computer related to our business and he was away , so did a spotlight search which brought up what I needed as no idea what it was filed under, imagine my surprise too when I saw in the list (as it used the word I had searched under) a dating site newsletter back from 2011. It’s a very tasteful one and not from one of the obvious places and fits with his interests and character. It was filed away in a file with loads of old emails . At first I thought it was Spam but then realised that it doesn’t have any marketing/3Rd party type disclaimers at the bottom and shows it’s for his specific email address. It also came from an email address where the lady’s name sending it is also the sign off name in the body of text, having checked the site they state they do not sell lists, buy lists or market spam , and you get the newsletter by either being a member or signing up for it, so I am struggling to find an innocent explanation for this although you can tick for the newsletter (which also has good content about ethics/environment etc, without being a ‘member’. But still, it’s pretty obvious it’s main function is as a dating site. He doesn’t exactly have a squeaky clean record either, a longish emotional affair about 5 years prior to date of this newsletter that ended about 2 years before this . I am really not quite sure how to approach saying I have seen this. I tried logging in and it doesn’t recognise his email address , so it may be something that he did for a short while but still it’s totally bloody unacceptable as far as I’m concerned, however I do wonder if there is an innocent explanation but am Struggling to think of one.