Hi!
My little boy (2 yo) took really poorly last night, ambulance called. Could have been a lot worse than it was, thank god I got the paramedics in time and he's home on antibiotics for infection.
My ex, (ds dad) hasn't really been involved since we split up a year ago. Prefers drink. Drugs and other woman. Doesn't pay a penny and is constantly letting my son down.
i called him and told him about our little boy- said I was exaggerating and has now gone out on a bender I'm guessing and basically couldn't give a fuck.
The only time he bothers is when he has no money and nothing to do so walks into our home if and when he wants. Every time I try and stop him he causes a massive up roar and threatens me.
It's got to the point where I don't want him anywhere near my son. I've told him how ill he was and thought he might have actually shown some concern.
My little boy idolises his father. Every time he walks in my house uninvited his face lights up and he is so happy to see him. But I want it stopped all together. I've found out drug dealers are looking for him aswell as the police and I don't want my son associated with this.
I've told him time and time again I would help him sort his life out and that I want him to be a proper dad. But I don't think I do anymore. I just want him out of are lives for good. But then I'm going to be breaking my little boys heart for stopping him seeing his father, even though he doesn't really care about his son!
I feel so sad for my little boy because soon he's going to understand and I just want to do the best for him!