Am working FT on temporary contract but hate FT. Highly stressful job. However a FT permanent position has become available and I have been asked to apply.
But.......when H and I argue he brings up the finances out of nowhere and says why should I go PT when he cant. Or the fact I spend money on myself. I am in my 60s by the way so could take my pension. Bloody infuriating.
So as the deadline looms I asked for his opinion on this job situation and he became v defensive and raised voice because I asked for reassurance that he would not resort to bringing up the job if I didn't go for it. I wanted his honest opinion.
So he said he wouldn't and became angry that I would question him further. To him the matter was closed and took offence that I wanted to talk about it. So I closed the door and walked out and he kicked it.
All I wanted was a clear conversation about my future.