Ive been seeing a guy now for almost a year coming up in 2 weeks. It was my birthday 2 days ago but I had asked him to book a hotel for the day after for us to stay in because he cares for his nan and I have 2 children who I havent introduced him properly too. (We briefly knew eachother for years before we started seeing eachother and hes met my kids but I havent involved them in the relationship so he doesnt see them). Ok so on my birthday I stupidly started a row with him over something silly, he messaged me that night a few times and I ignored him until the next day in the afternoon. I apologised and I said it was my fault and I asked if the hotel that night was still on. He said he had cancelled it becuse I was ignoring him and he couldnt afford to waste the money if I wasnt gonna turn up. I was devasted, because he works full time running his own business and I have 2 kids and live with family in the year weve been seeing eachother we have never spent a day together or been able to sleep in together. It seriously hurt me but I also dont think he knew how important it was to me. We got into a row about us. My point is in a year we've never spent one day together that is mainly due to the fact I have the kids and no babysitter, so usually 3 times a week I put the kids to bed at 8pm and I go to his and I leave his at 5.30am the next day to be home at 6am before the kids wake up. (I live with family and aslong as theyre asleep they dont mind me being out aslong as im home before they wake). I think weve been out together about 4 times for drinks or dinner in a year. He says we are not together but wants to keep seeing me. Weve rowed about it and I told him im going to stop seeing him because he wont properly commit. Ive explained I dont need a marriage proposal or to live together but just general things such as going out more often and meeting friends and family. Ive only met one of his friends and thats only because we bumped into him when we first started seeinf eachtoher. After a year, I love this guy, I want things to progress but he is adiment that he things this pace if fine and he doesnt want to put a label on us and hea been hurt a lot in the past. (That is fact, I witnessed it myself with his ex. He was crushed). I know he cares about me a lot and i know hes not seeing anyone else so what do I do. I dont want to be another year down the line and still be in this position but he says he doesnt know what he wants just that he wants to keep seeing me. (Also its not about sex, we dont have sex often). We love eachothers company and I love evedythinf about him but he wont budge on this and neither will I so now I am heartbroken and he is saying the same but borh of us wont change our minds. Should I move on or do I wait this out in the hope it progressess? Im not one of those women that goes from man to man and thinkinf ive fallen in love with each of them. Ive waited a long time for someone who made me happy who I could talk to and felt comfortable with and I dont want to lose that. I was so sure that it would work itself out but its not and I dont know what to do. i dont think any other guy will compare to him now ive known how amazing it is to be with someone this great. But he wont change his mind!!! I think if he doesnt change his mind then im gonna have to walk away. 😔 someone please advice! Thanks