Hi
My partner is (by his own admission) a bit lazy. He is quite wealthy and doesn't work. I work full time and have two sons from previous relationships. He has never had a serious relationship (not lived with anyone, no kids etc)
we are both independent and head strong.
There are lots of things that niggle me and I get confused about whether this is me being over sensitive or if I should be concerned.
for example:
He likes the TV on all night, I cant stand it. He doesn't work and I do, so I want it to be off so that I can sleep. its at most 1/2 nights a week.
if we haven't made plans he just wont be flexible. He will say he cant be bothered or that he wants to stay home and watch TV. because of my work and family this can mean we go over a week without seeing each other.
he recently said that if his neighbours are parked on his drive I need to tell them to move, he is not going to do it anymore. If I don't want to do that I can park on the street. I reminded him that I don't know them and that parking on the street is hard when I have overnight bags, work stuff etc.
we share the cost of everything. if he pays on a card he will send me a bill at the end of the month. I find this really impersonal.
I really don't know If I am moaning. I think after previous relationships I am just losing clarity. I would really welcome our thoughts
thanks