exh hostile at handover still after a decade!

[hattyhighlighter]

So my divorce was long ago (his instigation as he had OW- he left in a blaze of glory and was quite nasty) and we have all moved on, he has a long term partner, I'm happily single, dcs are ok. But when he comes to pick them up for his EOW he acts like I am public enemy no. 1 and won't so much as say hello. Really quite unpleasant and I hate dcs to see it. I do try and avoid him as much as possible (dcs preteens now.) I am polite I mean why not.

Rise above it. Continue to be polite and your children will see in time who was the mature one. At least they're getting to an age where you will soon be able to avoid him altogether at handover.

Ignore him and continue to be a good role model to your DC.

Mine still does this, most of the time.

Rise above.

My Exh is the same. I think it's a shame for our DD but frankly I'm over it now. Just reminds me what a total tool he is every time the bell end refuses to speak to me.

Thanks for the support, it helps to share. I will continue as I am.

Probably pissed off that you didnt stroke his ego and do the pick me dance.