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Has she been oversensitive or am I in the wrong?

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yummymummy1988 · 13/10/2017 13:36

I had planned to meet one of my friends, who I don’t see very often really, for coffee this afternoon. We had planned it about a week ago. On Wednesday this week.. without even thinking anything of it.. I shared a video from buzzfeed or whoever about you ‘future self’ telling your current self not to makes plans as you will only want to stay in when it comes to it. I only shared it as I thought it was funny any quite true for people in their 30s with kids! She then commented on it with a side eyeing face Hmm.. I replied and said this isn’t aimed at us meeting tomorrow by the way lol! And thought that would be the end of it. So early this morning I text her to see if she was still up for it.. no reply.. get myself and DS ready and messaged again.. she then replied ‘don’t worry babe you stay at home’ I said have I done something to upset you? She then said the video was off putting for people I had plans with? And I should have tagged someone in it if it’s a joke with another friend.. I said to her that I’m actually quite upset she would think I would aim it at her via a silly video in the hope she would see it, if I didn’t want to meet her I wouldn’t have suggested it or would have made my excuses? But she’s really took it bad. Am I really in the wrong here!?

OP posts:
Dottie39 · 13/10/2017 13:39

She is being ridiculous. Is she usually this sensitive/nuts?!

Ladyformation · 13/10/2017 13:39

YANBU. She's being ridiculous.

whatsthecomingoverthehill · 13/10/2017 13:41

It sounds like a shit video to be honest! But, no, unless you have form for making plans and then making it obvious you don't want to be there, she has totally overreacted.

lumleyy · 13/10/2017 14:01

completely overreacting, how petty and ridiculous!

yummymummy1988 · 13/10/2017 14:02

It probably was a shit video lol.. but that’s exactly what I thought people would see it as, just shit.. not something to take serious or personally! It does seem a bit out of character for her, especially as she always jokes herself that she’s a bit of a hermit I thought she would be one that saw the funny side not take it as a dig at her meaning I don’t want to meet her.. I’m not that petty!! I just think we all make plans for nights out etc then it comes to the night and you would rather be in your pjs! That’s all I meant x

OP posts:
Desmondo2016 · 13/10/2017 14:07

She's a twat and you're normal.

Desmondo2016 · 13/10/2017 14:08

And I don't think it's shit. It's completely accurate lol.

Brahms3rdracket · 13/10/2017 14:17

It is accurate and she's an oversensitive little snowflake.

Isetan · 13/10/2017 14:17

I can not believe supposed grown up women interact with each other in this way.

blackteasplease · 13/10/2017 16:45

Hugely oversensitive. Her.

Olddear · 13/10/2017 18:00

She's an eejit. Not only that, she calls you 'babe' that alone would've put me off her.

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