I had planned to meet one of my friends, who I don’t see very often really, for coffee this afternoon. We had planned it about a week ago. On Wednesday this week.. without even thinking anything of it.. I shared a video from buzzfeed or whoever about you ‘future self’ telling your current self not to makes plans as you will only want to stay in when it comes to it. I only shared it as I thought it was funny any quite true for people in their 30s with kids! She then commented on it with a side eyeing face
.. I replied and said this isn’t aimed at us meeting tomorrow by the way lol! And thought that would be the end of it. So early this morning I text her to see if she was still up for it.. no reply.. get myself and DS ready and messaged again.. she then replied ‘don’t worry babe you stay at home’ I said have I done something to upset you? She then said the video was off putting for people I had plans with? And I should have tagged someone in it if it’s a joke with another friend.. I said to her that I’m actually quite upset she would think I would aim it at her via a silly video in the hope she would see it, if I didn’t want to meet her I wouldn’t have suggested it or would have made my excuses? But she’s really took it bad. Am I really in the wrong here!?