When will this end? Ten years of awful verbal, financial, emotional abuse. He was arrested a few years ago for assaulting my DC.
Wormed his way back in and was ‘trying really hard’ for about 4 months until he went back to his old ways.
In January I found messages which confirmed his drug use. I threw him out and have filed for divorce. On and off abuse since then bit it’s now ramped up as he has received his divorce papers in the post.
I’m in the middle of the freedom programme which is great, but stirring up a lot of emotions in me.
Today he picked the DC up (not the one he assaulted, he doesn’t see her) and the verbal abuse was horrific. I ran upstairs to get away and he barged his way past one DC into my bedroom and was shouting at me. I didn’t say a single thing but broke down after he left.
Called 101 and reported it at 11am, I’m still waiting for someone to come out to give a statement.
I fucking hate him, abusive arsehole twat. I wish he would just leave me alone.
This is all my fault, don’t you know? I chose to end our marriage and broke our vows as it was supposed be until death do us part. All he needed was time and love to get over his drug addiction but I couldn’t give that to him apparently, as addiction is an illness I broke the vows again as it was ‘in sickness and in health’. Oh and my jeans are too tight and top too short, and I’m not setting a good example to the DC (I was wearing skinny jeans and a normal length hoody).
Manipulative, lying, bastard. FUCK YOU. Wish the police would hurry up whilst I’m still angry, I’m not very well either and desperate to go to bed.