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Has my dh gone off me?

29 replies

Itshardtosharethis · 09/04/2007 21:26

Dont really know where to start with this,very hard for me to talk about this been blocking it out of my mind so far,and hae posted under an alias,as im embarassed about this.
Firstly dh and i have just had our first baby,we had a very very active sex life before ds as it took us over 2yrs to get him.But since i got pregnant dh has not snogged me and we havent had sex.

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theSelfishMan · 09/04/2007 23:02

Wannabe speaks much wisdom - the letter approach is perfect when people (and many, many do - men and women) find it difficult to talk about it.

You know your DH better than us, but the basic thrust of wannabe's sample is good - the idea is to not phrase what you're saying in a way that makes him defensive.

good luck!

Debbsyandson · 10/04/2007 09:15

yes she does i will do something,just dont want to upset the apple cart yet though as the house is harmonious.

theSelfishMan · 10/04/2007 15:28

Hey thats cool - you have to be happy dealing with this before you move forward. but....

I really dont mean to put pressure on you, but the longer you leave it, the worse it tends to get.

good luck!

Debbsyandson · 10/04/2007 21:33

Yes i know i will do just not yet.Dont feel strong at the moment to deal with it.

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