Affair alert!!

[Freckledbananas]

I've been married to DH for nearly 4 years and we have a lovely dc. DH is a lovely man but not emotionally attentive.
I met someone else and I'm absolutely crazy about him. He knows what to say to me all the time. He is incredibly thoughtful and sweet. He knows me, says exactly what I need to hear. He's completely swept me off my feet.
We both know it's wrong and haven't had sex however I know we will do if we carry on speaking. Haven't spoken to him in 24 hours as I am trying to wean myself off him and it has been so difficult! He is single and got no children.
Please people be strict with me if necessary, I need to continue to be strong and not speak to him.

OH MY GOLLY the exact same thing is happening to me.. I was about to post about it in another thread...

Hello :)
I still haven't messaged OM, still miss him sometimes but I have stubbornly refused to get in touch with him.
I told DH about it....he was not happy but he did say that he understood why I did it. You see there is a lot of background story here. He asked if I wanted to work on our marriage together and I said yes. We have been making real efforts since....I have cut back on work, he's becoming more attentive and I have just had the best sex of my life with him! I know...tmi but I have to give an honest update:)
We are learning to communicate better and to not be so stubborn and it feels so good. We still need to do a lot of work and it's early days I know but I think we are on the right track x

Good to hear :) don't give the OM a second thought. The grass is never greener.

Tell your husband you are a cheater so he can leave you if he wants and find a loyal wife.

Barbaro
I did tell him but he insisted on making it work with disloyal me.
Perhaps if you can tell him yourself and recommend a suitable woman just like you.....